Granmance, a portmanteau of "grandparent" and "romance," describes a deep and transformative bond between a young person and older adult—such as a grandmother or mentor—characterized by shared adventures, friendship, and the wisdom that bridges generations. The term was inspired by the characters at the heart of Alisa Fisher's novel Finding Izzy.

In an era of weakened social connections, experts saying bonding with an older or younger friend offers unique benefits. -May 29, 2026, The New York Times

"When it comes to lasting romance, passion has nothing on friendship," -Arthur Brooks

"Opening up to someone and sharing your deepest feelings is one of the most healing things you can do."
-Alisa Fisher

This book is a real-life granmance! Veterinary student Brad Ryan was dangerously burned out when he realized he needed to change his life. Seeking healing from a grueling schedule, he embarked on a journey to reconnect with nature and his beloved grandmother, Joy.
Here I am with my paternal grandmother, Iris, on the right in her wedding day portrait, and my mother, Linda, on the left in her college portrait. My grandmother, an Italian immigrant who entered the U.S. through Ellis Island in 1927, had to overcome many obstacles to start her new life here. She was a calm and steady presence in my life. Her Friday night pizza parties were legendary and influenced my lifelong love of cooking.


Alisa Fisher coined the term GRANMANCE™ to explain a close and affectionate bond between generations. It was inspired by the characters at the heart of her young adult novel, FINDING IZZY. Do you have a granmance to share? We would love to hear from you! Find inspiration on our submissions page.
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